In Her Own Words
About Her
Wouldn't it be easier to highlight what our flaws are immediately rather than sell ourselves, let's give it a bash!
I am a narcissist survivor, which means I am guarded to the point of impossible & some may wonder why I would be here then, but I don't generalise & am willing to give anything a fair chance, but too old for B'S.
I am admittedly difficult to please at the moment, but I am working on it. I just had someone mess with my head in every single way possible, so even a compliment is touch & go, but I can promise I will remain straight forward & if you can handle what I say & understand that it is what it is & offence is taken not given, we should be alright.
I am still me & not totally loopy yet. Haven't stolen any pets or housekeys to get attention just yet ;) normal is a setting on my washing machine!
I have old fashioned standards & have walked away from life changing situations because i felt i was compromising.
I need money but it doesn't rule me. I am and will remain independent, regardless of how long getting back up takes It would be great to find someone passionate about something & a person who stands for something. I am a crusader & I fight like hell when I see people being pushed down or their circumstances being used against them. I can get a little intense & will go as far as publicly embarrassing myself & others to be heard - don't ever say I didn't warn you ;)
I don't ask for help, i find a way through, over or under! I dont worry about what others do, "If you don't like what you're seeing, stop looking" I don't tell people how to be & expect the same.
I am female - I could write a thesis on who or what I am & then one fine day be none of those things, so I shall stop here.
We are who we are, we either firm in which ever form or we dont.
Before I close though my expectations are to meet people, if a relationship forms awesome but I am really loving being myself & getting my independence back, so if like to be friends first with as little pressure as possible from all sides!
About Her Ideal Match
Oi really?
My ideal match looks & sounds like Bruce Willis. He loves me more than air but doesn't smother me. He writes the most amazing lyrics & plays a guitar. He is built like Bruce of course & I don't have to worry about him looking elsewhere because we are best friends. He loves animals bit is housing a zoo. He gives without expecting anything back but is no pushover. He is willing to stand up for what he believes even if it means starting at 0. He likes eveything but isn't fanatical. He isn't scared to try new things & is a amazing carpenter. He likes that I get stuck in & do guys stuff & know a if I need advice or help I'll ask. He supports my ambitious impossible ideas but wont sugar coat just to please me or leave me on a wild goose chase with stars in his eyes. He spends time with his friends & lets me do the same but the balance of is & then is just right. He is sentimental but not iffy. Sensitive but not painful. Thoughtful but not creepy. He isn't afraid to tell me anything & when we mess up we own up, forgive & forget. Neither of us keep score. He makes an effort like I do to be patient with the things we need to get used to about one another, our families, & they way we live our lives. He doesn't think I hatched the day I met him & knows that change is a gradual process, not to be pointed out.
Did I mention he is a F16 pilot, who has more than enough money, so much so that he just gives me whatever my little heart desires......
If you fit into that profile I will be flabbergasted! I dont know if we can say exactly what it is we want, we can only say for sure what we dont want & situations change all the time, so let's do life!!
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Orthodox | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
154cm (5' 0.6") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; German | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Mystery; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gambling; Gardening; Making Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Baseball; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Camping; Dancesport; Darts; Extreme sports; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Kitesurfing; Motorsport; Pool; Sailing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Wakeboarding; Walking; Water skiing; Windsurfing |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using TDL Connect: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
