In Her Own Words
About Her
Ek wil graag iemand ontmoet met wie ek die res van my lewe kan deurbring. Ek is op soek na 'my mens'. Ek kan doen met nog avontuur en reis, hoewel ek ook gelukkig is om by die huis te wees met ‘n goeie boek of fliek. Ek is hoofsaaklik ‘n introvert, rustig, tevrede met my lewe, mal oor my kat, hou van lekker kos maak (en eet!), drink graag ‘n glasie wyn, luister na ‘n wye verskeidenheid musiek, en hou van sinvolle gesprekke. (Van hierdie dinge vind soms gelyk plaas.) Ek hou nie van luiddrugtige mense, voorwendsels en emosionele speletjies en drama nie. As jy enigsins aanklank vind by hierdie beskrywing, kontak my, en laat ons bietjie gesels om meer van mekaar uit te vind en te sien of ons ‘connect’.
I can list many more things about myself, such as spiritual quests and other stuff that fascinate me, but I really want someone to resonate with the simpler things. My life has been pretty full of amazing experiences and people, but ultimately I want to have a synergy with someone who shares the basic modest values I am coming to appreciate more and more. This does not equate to being boring and indifferent to anything, but more an appreciation of what life is about and where the beauty resides.
I currently live in the Karoo. I do not plan to be here for forever, and am also fortunate that I have managed to set up my working life to be that of a ‘digital nomad’ who is pretty free to indulge in living and working from anywhere in the world. This was a deliberate decision to allow myself freedom.
About Her Ideal Match
Iemand wat baie dieselfde is as hoe ek myself hierbo beskryf – nie noodwendig presies eenders nie, maar wat verstaan wat ek sê en soortgelyk deur die lewe gaan. Ek verkies iemand wat meestal al deur al die bagasie gewerk het. As jy iemand is wat boonop belangstel in die fynere dinge in die lewe en jouself goed ken, is dit perfek.
You love reading and good music (however eclectic) and you have reverence for creation and nature in all its manifestations. Eccentricity and being unconventional do count in your favour, as long as it's authentic. If the Bruch and Brahms violin concertos make you cry, you might very well be ‘my person’.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Beaufort West, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 175cm (5' 8.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Moody; Optimistic; Quiet; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Cricket; Hiking; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Greek; Indian; Italian; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using TDL Connect: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
