In Her Own Words
About Her
It's the little things that count for me. I enjoy intimate moments, love laughing and fruitful conversations. I'm not good with awkward moments, and with every fibre in me believe in genuine connections between people. A good meal and a glass of wine are my kind of Friday nights, when I say good meals please don’t start thinking MasterChef because I am not even sure if I like cooking. I am family and culturally oriented and honestly look better in stilettos, than I do in sneakers 😄. My independence is a core part of who i am, at times it is a good thing but in relationships it is not. I value my freedom and Im always pushing myself to the next level. That said, I also appreciates someone who can stand by my side as a leader, offering support and encouragement without being overbearing
I’m HIV positive, that does not make me any less lovable or resentful towards people or life. Do I wish love had been more kinder to me? Definitely, but I do believe it is still possible.
I am an open minded individual, shy at times but break out of my shell easily. Apparently my intelligence shines through in everything i do. I love deep conversations that challenge me, and she values a partner who is intellectually stimulating and shares or will understand my passion for learning.
Despite my drive and focus, I have a warm, genuine personality. I value deep, meaningful connections. Family and I approach relationships with sincerity and loyalty. I am both thoughtful and kind, but I also expect mutual respect and understanding, especially when it comes to balancing independence with intimacy.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm hoping to meet a Gentleman who understands that if it comes easy then it is not worth it, meaning that no relationship is easy and they are ready to put in the effort, a relationship should not feel like a 9 to 5 to either of us, but more of journey created through love, commitment and memories. A partner who understands I'm not here to grant him the extraordinary love he never had for himself, but that I'm here, on my own accord, to love him.
I look for a partner who understands that at most women are reciprocators, a man who in as much as I’m a force to be reckoned with out there, understands that at home I am a nurturer. A leader who is responsible, one who’s leadership I can grow in. A partner who is kind and chivalrous, a man who says “I know you can do it but you no longer have too”.
You should understand yourself and what it is you need, must be willing to have more kids. Be respectful, supportive and open minded. "Please", Thank you" and I’m sorry are very important words to have in one’s vocabulary.
Must be able to communicate and not believe that societies way/standards of living should necessarily be our way of living.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
34 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ndebele | |
Other Languages: |
Sesotho; Tswana; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") - 193cm (6' 4.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Large | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; None (Bald); Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Dutch; English; Italian; Ndebele; Portuguese; Sesotho; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
English; French; Italian; Ndebele; Portuguese; Sepedi; Sesotho; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Heavy; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Self-employed; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Horror |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Reading; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using TDL Connect: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
