In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a quiet, introverted person who values meaningful connection. I’m currently married, though in a relationship that is likely coming to an end, and for now I’m only looking for friendship and emotional connection. I’m very private by nature and don’t have many people I can truly open up to, so genuine conversation and like-mindedness matter to me.
I don’t enjoy small talk or crowded social settings, but I connect well one-on-one or in small circles. I’m a good listener and naturally submissive in my nature. I’m drawn to confident, decisive women who are comfortable taking the lead in life. I’m simply looking for a like-minded woman to talk to and share with, without pressure, and to see where a real connection may lead.
About His Ideal Match
I’m drawn to a confident, emotionally grounded woman who is comfortable taking the lead and setting direction in life. Calm, self-aware, and decisive qualities matter to me. I value trust, structure, and openess, and believe a connection works best when there is mutual respect and emotional safety.
I don’t always express myself easily or quickly, so I connect best with someone patient and intuitive — a woman who is comfortable guiding communication, taking initiative, and learning how I communicate through connection and consistency.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
27 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The genitals |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Naive; Pessimistic; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Humour |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Sci-Fi |
Movie Preferences: |
Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using TDL Connect: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |