In Her Own Words
About Her
My friends describe me as warm-hearted and dependable. I’m thoughtful in my words.
I enjoy meaningful conversations and spending time with genuine and kind people. I appreciate nature, music, and simple, beautiful things—like a well-set table and time with my loved ones. I am artistic and also find great satisfaction in organizing and beautifying my home. I have a passion for interior design. I love creating environments that feel warm, welcoming, and reflective of the people who live in them.
I dislike dishonesty, unnecessary conflict, and people who dismiss others' feelings or time.
I enjoy road trips and connecting with nature. I find joy in life's simple pleasures, the comfort of a beautifully arranged living space, spending quality time with my partner, and occasionally the laughter of friends gathered around the table.
When I need to relax from work, I listen to music and watch something interesting, or plot around the house.
I believe life is a gift, even with its ups and downs. I try to focus on gratitude and grace. I've learned that peace often comes not from getting everything right, but from letting go of what no longer serves me and embracing what truly matters. I value growth, kindness, and purpose. I still look forward to what’s ahead.
About Her Ideal Match
I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, kind, honest, and grounded. A man who values connection and conversation but is also comfortable with silence. He should be dependable, have a sense of humour, and be able to appreciate both the simple joys of life and the more profound moments. A man of integrity, who respects others and treats people well — that matters most to me.
Mutual respect, clear communication, emotional support, and laughter. I believe in giving each other space to grow while still showing up for one another every day. Trust is everything. If we can be open, kind, and honest with each other, I believe the relationship can thrive, even through difficult times.
I’d love to share meals, whether we’re cooking at home or trying new restaurants. I enjoy the outdoors and nature, so a relaxing weekend getaway would be lovely. I also value companionship and shared experiences, whether entertaining friends, attending concerts or markets, or simply curling up with a good movie or book together.
Dishonesty, arrogance, emotional unavailability, or lack of respect are red flags for me. I have no room for someone who plays games or disrespects others. If someone has no interest in personal growth, lacks compassion, or cannot communicate, that would be a red flag for me.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 68 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Game shows; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Meditation; Painting; Photography; Sewing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Feelings about using TDL Connect: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Very |