In His Own Words
About Him
I think I'm a nice, somewhat unconventional guy that still have not found that special person ... so here I am, patiently looking for her, my soul mate!
I seriously hate writing long essays about myself, I am quite a private person. However I understand it will narrow the search so I will make an effort.
What I will say about myself is I'm a gentleman, a genuine person, "young" and healthy, I lead a really active, busy life, I consider myself a good person. I am comfortable with myself and my imperfections, and I am a conscious, mindful, spiritual person, and I do enjoy my own company.
I'm a one woman kind of guy, I need her to be my best friend, my partner, my confidant, and my princess and in return I will love her with all my heart, be fiercely loyal, and I will always be there, no matter what.
I love kids! I have two young boys, living with me, so if you looking for a guy who's kids have moved out, that wont be me.
I'm not a Peacock, a stud, or a Rambo, but I am quite fit, healthy, grounded, well-traveled, intelligent, an entrepreneur and although I farm a little, I don't wear Khaki sorts, long socks with a comb!
I notice some profile list a requirement for a "very attractive" person, so let me save everyone some time here, I am not a "very attractive" person!
While I'm not "fugly" I probably have more of a rugged look than that of a male model!
And I love technology, but I believe technology has its use... I do not always carry my phone arround,have it in arms reach or respond to a message in seconds or minutes, and I do so enjoy going places with no signal at all!
I do not log onto this site every day, and find it quite weird when I receive a message and by the time I get to read it, or want to respond a day or three later, the profile has been deleted!
About His Ideal Match
So while I'm here looking for her, I hope to make some good friends.
I prefer positive, active, intelligent, alternative, witty people, with a sense of self, the universe, humor and adventure and that smells nice.
While i "adult" with the best of them, my boys keep me "young"
I am a firm believer that you are really as old as you feel.
I prefer to meet someone that is young of mind and thought, that does not think of themselves as over the hill at 50+ but believe her best life is yet to come!
I'm not too keen on dominating, dogmatic, negative, uninformed, narcissistic (have a strong aversion to those) and opinionated people with a constant need for external validation.
So if you are a conscious, mindful, spiritual being, without a need to be overtly "woke" If you don't have a need to describe yourself with a list of more than one identifying pronoun, to express or explain your identity.
If you have a healthy attitude to love and life, and have sorted your issues.
If you enjoy your own company and comfortable in your imperfect skin, enjoy traveling, camping, reading and nature more than being a socialite that is permanently glued to your phone, and living your "perfect" life live on social media, I would like to hear from you!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Paarl, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
188cm (6' 2.0") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Chinese; Dutch; English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A wicked satin teddy |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Backgammon; Baseball; Basketball; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Softball; Squash; Surfing; Swimming; Wakeboarding; Walking; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Other |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Feelings about using TDL Connect: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |